Friendships shape who we are and influence our lives in countless ways. Do you know what role you play in your friend group? Are you the nurturing one, the wild spirit, or the steady planner? Take this quiz to discover your unique friendship personality and find out how your vibe impacts the relationships around you!
Why It Matters: The Energy You Bring to Friendships
Understanding your friendship vibe is about more than just knowing how you act in social settings. It’s about identifying how you support others, manage boundaries, and navigate different situations. When you know your role, you can enhance your connections and be more intentional about how you show up for the people you care about. Your role also influences how people perceive and respond to you in your friendships, making it easier to build stronger bonds.
Take the Quiz: What Kind of Friend Are You?
Choose the answer that best reflects your vibe:
1. Your group text is blowing up. You…
A. Make sure no one’s feelings got hurt.
B. Suggest shots and karaoke.
C. Don’t respond, but show up with cookies later.
D. Drop a “you good?” to whoever’s quietest.
2. You’re planning a weekend together. You…
A. Make an itinerary with everyone’s needs in mind.
B. Just wanna wing it and vibe.
C. Bring backup chargers, Band-Aids, and Tums.
D. Say “whatever you all want” and go with the flow.
3. Someone’s crying. You…
A. Hold space and validate everything.
B. Crack a joke to cheer them up.
C. Give practical advice.
D. Sit quietly next to them with a tissue.
4. Your friends describe you as…
A. Nurturing
B. Wild
C. Reliable
D. Deep
Results: What’s Your Friendship Vibe?
Mostly A: The Mom Friend
You are the backbone of your friend group — the one who remembers birthdays, checks in on everyone, and ensures no one is left behind. People rely on you for emotional support, practical advice, and a sense of stability. Your nurturing nature makes you the glue that holds the group together.
You thrive when you can care for others, and your friends know they can count on you for both big and small things.
Mostly B: The Wild Card
You’re the spark that keeps the energy high! Life is never boring with you around, and you bring excitement, fun, and spontaneity to the group. Whether it’s planning a surprise night out, starting an impromptu dance party, or just being the one to liven things up, you’re the person who brings the thrill to any situation. Your adventurous spirit keeps things fresh, and your friends love you for it.
Mostly C: The Planner Rock
You are the reliable one who keeps things running smoothly. You love organizing, making sure everyone has what they need, and handling logistics. People trust you because they know you’ll always show up prepared. You may not crave the spotlight, but your steady hand and careful planning make you an invaluable friend.
Whether it’s planning a trip, managing a group project, or just ensuring everyone is on the same page, your strategic mind always gets the job done.
Mostly D: The Empath
You are deeply intuitive and emotionally in tune with your friends. You can sense when someone needs help, even without them saying a word. Your ability to empathize, listen, and offer a safe space for others to express themselves makes you the emotional anchor of the group.
You connect on a deep level and often find yourself being the one people turn to for guidance or comfort. Your compassion and sensitivity are your superpowers.
✨ What’s your friendship vibe?
Drop your result below and tag your most chaotic friend (you know the one 😏).
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💡 Knowing your vibe helps you protect your energy and love people better — even the drama queens.
